Six Tips For a Balanced Lifestyle

Balancing work, school, internships and just life in general can become a struggle especially when it’s all winding down to finals week.  With only three or four weeks left in the school semester, it is what some people call “crunch time.” Right now is the time to end on a good note with all things you are involved in.

As a student who took on a campus job, a reporting position, an internship and four classes all at the same time, I can speak from experience that it is chaotic. Long days turned into long nights and there was nothing I could do about it but keep working. Not only did it take a toll on my sleeping habits, I officially became burned out.

But throughout the past two semesters of juggling all of those responsibilities, I learned a few tricks of the trade to keep going when all I wanted to do was crawl into bed and hide from everything.

1.) Make your agenda your best friend

Buying a planner sounds like a standard plan of action for organizing your life, but you have to actually use it. Keep your organizer organized by ranking most important events or tasks by importance with different highlighter colors.

2.) Block out hours for working

Balancing more than one responsibility can get confusing. Writing for two different publications and writing for classes made deadlines for me extremely important. The best way I balanced this was to put everything in order of what had to be done and basically “schedule” times I would sit down and do it.

3.) Buy a smart phone

It may be out of your budget, but it is the best investment for a busy college student. Being able to merge my school and work emails into the same group and accessing the internet at any moment has definitely increased my productivity. It may not necessarily help you “balance” life but it does make it easier.

4.) Ask for help

When life gets chaotic, don’t be shy to let your friends step in. It’s okay to say you need help or can’t do something.  Especially when you need advice, friends or parents can give you an outside view on your chaotic life. Remember: “It’s okay to not be okay.”

5.) Don’t sweat the small stuff

Taking on more duties means there’s that much more to possibly mess up. Don’t worry about every little mistake or problem that doesn’t REALLY matter.  Mistakes will happen and usually they will help you improve in all areas of life.

6.) Schedule time for fun

Remember that life shouldn’t always be about working. Take time to enjoy your college days and go to fun events with friends. One of my favorite quotes to live by: “Taking time to live your life will only inspire your work.”

Some more of my inspirational “keep on moving” quotes:

“Worrying will never change the outcome.”

“Eventually everything falls into place. Until then, laugh at the confusion, live for the moment and know that everything happens for a reason.”

“Don’t make a bad day make you feel like you have a bad life.”

“Everything in life is temporary. So if things are going good, enjoy them while they last. If things are going bad, don’t worry. It can’t last forever either.”

College Lifestyles has created a board full of inspirational quotes on Pinterest for when you’re feeling stressed or sad. I even printed out some
of my favorite quotes and photos and have them on my bedroom wall for whenever I need to turn to something for reassurance.

 

Jessica Fecteau is a senior fashion, etiquette and apartment/dorm life writer and is a sophomore at Central Michigan University. Jessica loves fashion magazines, listening to indie/folk music and traveling to big cities.


8 things Co-eds Love about “Staycations”

College is fun, but sometimes you need a break. That’s what Spring Break is for! Whether it be a sweet escape to the Bahamas, a ski trip to Colorado, or a week-long stay at home, set your studies aside and forget about the stresses of everyday life. This is a vacation…enjoy!

Here are 8 things co-eds love about “staycations“:

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1. You can sleep till whenever (in your own bed). There are no clocks to punch, no 9am classes to wake up for, no office hours to go to, so just sleep in and savor the comfy-ness of your very own bed, blankets, and surplus of pillows.

2. You can watch trashy TV reruns all day long. Think The Real Housewives, Millionaire Matchmaker, and Desperate Housewives.

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3. You can eat delicious home-cooked meals. Start the day right with a plate full of chocolate-chip banana pancakes, indulge in homemade lasagna for dinner, and enjoy freshly baked cookies before bed.

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4. You can catch up with your high school friends. Find out who’s dating who…go to the movies, go shopping, go bowling, etc.

5. You can bond with your family. Have family dinners, play scrabble, watch movies together, enjoy each other’s company.

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6. You can take a trip to the beauty salon. Get a haircut and then a mani and pedi to match your new do.

7. You can do fun miscellaneous tasks. Make collages, print pictures to hang in your room, color, walk the dogs, write your favorite quotes on fancy paper…

8. You can do absolutely nothing. If you want to spend the entire day in your pjs, now is the time to do it! Sit back, relax, and live in the moment.

Erica Avesian is an intern at College Lifestyles (TM). She is a a communications major at the University of Michigan. You can find her at the gym, on the elliptical, reading Cosmo and listening to her “Look Good, Feel Good” playlist.


Quotes That Define YOUR Life

Before I asked and searched around for quotes that best define you and/or your lifestyle, I myself did not have a quote!  If you do not have a quote to call “your own”, hopefully one of these will stick out to you.  Just a side note: some people do ask during job interviews, although very rarely, but make sure you are not caught off guard and can have something to answer with quickly!
 

College Lifestyle’s: “A girl should be two things: Classy and Fabulous.” – Coco Chanel

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CL Intern Favorites: 

Liz: “Shock the people who make the rules…”

Deirdre: “Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss, you’ll land among the stars…” 

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Deirdre: “Live the life you want to live. Be the person you want to remember. Make decisions. Make mistakes. If you fail, at least you tried.”

Patrice: “Love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who don’t, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, let it. Nobody said that it’d be easy, they just promised it’d be worth it.” 

Patrice: “Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.”

 Stephanie: “Be who you are. Do what you love. Make a difference. Change the world.”
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Favorites from YOU:

“To hold it together when everyone else would understand if you fell apart, that’s true strength.”

“Everything’s okay in the end. If it’s not okay then it’s not the end.”

“Forgive your enemies but never forget their names” – Unknown

“Life is too short to be anything but happy, so kiss slowly, love deeply, forgive quickly, takes chances and never have regrets. Forget the past but remember what it taught you.”

Found by ME:  

“When it comes down to it, I let them think what they want. If they care enough to bother with what I do, then I’m already better than them.” – Marilyn Monroe

“Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it’s better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring.” – Marilyn Monroe

“I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when their right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.” – Marilyn Monroe 

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“Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.” – Maria Robinson

“This is my wish for you: comfort on difficult days, smiles when sadness intrudes, rainbows to follow the clouds, laughter to kiss your lips, sunsets to warm your heart, hugs when spirits sag, beauty for your eyes to see, friendships to brighten your being, faith so that you can believe, confidence for when you doubt, courage to know yourself, patience to accept the truth, and love to complete your life.” 

“The roughest road often leads to the top.” – Christina Aguilera

“What is it in us that makes us feel the need to keep pretending… we gotta let ourselves be.” – Christina Aguilera
 

“Our attitude toward life determines life’s attitude towards us.” – John N. Mitchell

And my lifestyle quote is…

“Life is full of beauty. Notice it. Notice the bumble bee, the small child, and the smiling faces. Smell the rain, and feel the wind. Live your life to the fullest potential, and fight for your dreams.” – Ashley Smith

I hope every one of you now has a quote that best defines you or that which you live by! If not, try this website where I found the ones above.

hourglass   Kayla Norris is an intern for College Lifestyles (TM). She is a junior at Georgia Southern University and had a great time searching and hearing your quotes.

 


I’m in Charge…Now What!? Pt. 2, Motivation

“If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more,you are a leader.”

– John Quincy Adams

In the movie Dirty Dancing, Johnny must make baby a fabulous dancer in only a few days. Even though he is a pro himself, his tough demeanor and negativity frustrates Baby and hinders her dancing. It is not until they head out of town and spend time dancing for fun that Baby actually begins to shine. She had the dancing skills all along, but needed the right motivation to bring them to the forefront.

This is the same when it comes to leading a team. Everyone on your team will have different talents they can contribute, and it is your job to bring those out…not always an easy task. So, you may ask, “How do I motivate my team?”

1. Save the best for last. As a leader you will deliver the good news AND the bad news to your team. When giving a report, always end on a positive note. Generally, people will remember the first thing you say and tthumbsuphe last, so be sure these are good news. I know, sometimes it can be hard to see the silver lining, but there is one. No major news? Commend the group for a job well done or read a thank-you card your organization received. Anything to end on a good note!

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Don't be like Mr. Johnston!

2.  Delegate. This can be a very scary word for leaders like us. It is easy to just do it yourself so it gets done the right way. However, remember those hidden talents your team members have? This is where you can really bring them out. By delegating work, everyone feels important and more likely to stay involved in the future. When delegating, explain the task and the results that are expected, but don’t give step-by-step instructions. This way, team members can use their own creativity and ingenuity to complete the task!

3. Be thoughtful. As president of my chapter, I had to make sure that the 7 other members on the executive board were excited about their positions. I wrote personalized notes thanking them for their hard work, made small crafty gifts for them (including “Big Girl Panties”…ask me later!) and tried to always be excited about the work we were doing myself. These little things reminded the girls that we were sisters and that we joined this organization to have fun. Plus, when the chapter would complain about changes being made, I helped convince them that the work they were doing was worth it. Implementing things like this with your team will keep other leaders enthusiastic and make them feel appreciated.

4. Take a break! Don’t get so wrapped up in getting things done that you forget to have fun! Take your executive board on a retreat and vow not to talk about anything regarding your leadership positions. Go out for dinner together, stay in for a movie night or take a small road trip together. Our chapter had $200 budgeted for E-board appreciation, so we spent a Saturday afternoon chatting while getting manicures! Making things fun will remind members why they joined the organization and let them de-stress. Plus, taking a break from the work can give you time to come up with great, new ideas.

Motivation = Happiness = Success!

Motivation = Happiness = Success!

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