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Sasha Graffagna is a senior at New York University. Follow her on Twitter at @SashaGraffagna. To stay tuned to more articles for classy co-eds, be sure to follow College Lifestyles on Facebook, Twitter, and Pinterest.

CL Interviews: Nicole Barron, President of the NYU Ballroom and Latin Dance Team

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Image Courtesy of Nicole Barron's Personal Library

Image Courtesy of Nicole Barron’s Personal Library

You might think ballroom dancing is just for your grandparents. But think again. Co-eds around the country ballroom dance competitively, and they look fabulous doing it. Nicole Barron, 22, is one such classy co-ed. A graduating senior at NYU majoring in Journalism and Social and Cultural Analysis, Barron has been president of the NYU Ballroom Dance Team for two years. Lucky for us, Barron took a break from tearing it up on the dance floor to chat with College Lifestyles (TM).

College Lifestyles: How did you get involved with ballroom dancing?

Nicole Barron: I got involved my freshman year at NYU. I had found the Ballroom team when I was researching about things to do at NYU when I was a senior in high school and came across the Ballroom team and wanted to join. I never took any dance classes when I was younger but I always wanted to and Ballroom really interested me. I saw the team at Club Fest and I went to their first lesson and stuck with it!

CL: What made you decide to run for President?

NB: I was actually the only candidate. I was the secretary my sophomore year and most of the EBoard were seniors so it just left me and one other girl who would be returning. Everyone just started saying that I would be president and then I kind of just accepted that I’d do it. I originally only wanted to…be vice president my junior year and president my senior year. But then I ended up doing it for two years and I couldn’t have been happier that I did.

Image Courtesy of Nicole Barron's Personal Library

Image Courtesy of Nicole Barron’s Personal Library

CL: As President, what do you do?

NB: I basically handle a lot of the logistics between the team and NYU, other schools, and outside venues that we use for lessons, etc. I work to organize the team and keep lessons and comps running. I also send and respond to lots of emails. My whole life these past two years has been about emails.

CL: What challenges did you face, and how did you overcome them?

NB: Some challenges were small like having to change a reservation in Kimmel and others have been bigger and usually involve competitions. At MIT last year the comp ended later than we had expected so I was searching along with my VP to find tickets to get everyone home. Luckily we had a very resourceful Newcomer who found tickets and we sent the remaining team members back on a late bus to NY. We also were at Yale last year when there was a blizzard around Halloween and we almost got stuck in New Haven. Challenges come up all the time but I always work with my EBoard to solve them by any means.

CL: What is the most important thing you learned from being President?

NB: I’ve learned a lot about working with my EBoard and splitting up tasks. Our team has between 50 and 75 active members and it’s takes more than one person to accomplish everything. There are a lot of forms to fill out, tickets to buy, people to register, and there’s no way one person could do it all. That being said, I still do a lot of things without delegating but I have learned how to delegate more over these past two years.

Image Courtesy of Nicole Barron's Personal Library

Image Courtesy of Nicole Barron’s Personal Library

CL: Do you have any words of advice for other college students who will be president of their organizations next year?

NB: Every president should have an idea of what they want to do for the team going into their presidency. I wanted to always be there for my team, and with such a large team that takes a lot of time. I wanted to be present and to always be at lessons and at competitions so that I could help out whenever someone needed help and that I could always be there to ask questions. That was my goal and I’m happy to say I did just that for two years.

CL: What other campus organizations are you involved with?

NB: Nothing! Ballroom took over my life, but in a good way. : )

CL: What are your plans after college?

NB: I’m working at my summer job for now in NY but I’m looking for permanent and hopefully in journalism.

CL: How do you plan to incorporate dancing into life after college?

NB: I’m still planning on dancing after I graduate. I have two partners right now: one for Smooth who lives in Boston and one for Latin who is in San Francisco for the next few months. I’m still planning on dancing with them and competing with NYU.

CL: How do you stay classy in college?

NB: I don’t how classy I am. I may only be on the dance floor? I think it’s important to have a good attitude no matter what the outcome at a competition. If you’re unhappy don’t yell at your partner at the competition. Wait until you are away from the competition. But I also don’t think it’s worth yelling. Ballroom should be fun and even if you’re competitive you should be having fun.

Image Courtesy of Nicole Barron's Personal Library

Image Courtesy of Nicole Barron’s Personal Library

Want to read about more classy student leaders? Check out the following CL articles:

CL Interviews: Alondra Olvera, Student Government President

CL Interviews Samantha Vulpis, Panhellenic President

CL Celebrates Women Leaders: Gabrielle Hitchens


Top Five Apps for Recent College Graduates

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Recently, CL gave you our Top Five Apps for College Students. But we’re not stopping there! For our classy readers graduating in a few short weeks, here are our top five apps for recent college graduates.

Mint. If you’re lucky, you have a job and an apartment upon college graduation. Now, you just need a way to keep track of all your hard-earned cash. Enter Mint, an award-winning personal finance app. Connect the app to your debit and credit card accounts, and it automatically categorizes your transactions so you know how much you’re spending on what. Create a budget you can actually stick to, learn when you’re going over, and make realistic spending goals with this app. Free on iOS and Android.

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Image Courtesy of Simon Howden/FreeDigitalPhotos.net

AllRecipes Dinner Spinner. Need a fast meal after a long day at work? Just select your main ingredient, the type of dish you want to make, and how long you want to spend making it. The app comes up with a list of recipes you can swipe through which fit your specifications. Free on iOS and Android. Premium Version for $2.99

Flipboard. Now that you’re a real live adult (gasp!), people will expect you to be up-to-date on major news events. Check out Flipboard, which is essentially Pinterest for news. Pick publications and news topics you like, and Flipboard will create personalized magazines based on your areas of interest. Free on iOS and Android.

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Image Courtesy of Stuart Miles/FreeDigitalPhotos.net

Stylitics. A closet full of clothes and nothing to wear? Not anymore! With Stylitics, you can create your own virtual closet, either by finding photos of items you already own or uploading your own. Track your outfits on the calendar, find out how much you’re spending on your wardrobe, and pinpoint those items you never wear so you can sell them on eBay. You can even browse other fashionistas’ closets for unique style ideas. And with the mobile app, you’ll always know if you have something that will actually match the latest trendy accessory. Free on iOS, not available on Android.

Scoutmob. We all know about Groupon and LivingSocial. Now, you can save more money withScoutMob. Available in select major cities, ScoutMob lets you know about discounts in shops and restaurants are right by you. This way, you won’t walk into one restaurant for lunch when you have 30% off on one right next door. The app even gives extra discounts for frequenting your frequent haunts, and offers mouthwatering recommendations so you’re never at a loss for what to order. Free on iOS and Android.

Graduating and need more advice? Check out the following articles:

CL’s Guide to Becoming an Alumnae

5 Ways to Master a Phone Interview

April Letter from the Managing Editor: Graduation 

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Argentina: 5 Places to Go Outside Buenos Aires

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Argentina. The country’s name immediately conjures up visions of late nights, sexy tango dances, and delicious steak dinners. For many, it also is automatically equated with Buenos Aires, its capital city.  Argentina is the second-largest land mass in South America, and there’s plenty of other places to see. CL has compiled this list of 5 places you can visit outside of Buenos Aires.

Mendoza. Don’t want to party every night? Have a classy vacation in Mendoza. Just a 2-hour flight from Buenos Aires, Mendoza is best known for its wine. For a low-budget option, take a bicycle tour around several different vineyards, and be sure to try Malbec, Argentina’s best-known wine. When you want to burn off all those wine-induced calories, hike up the Cerro de la Gloria. Here you can take in an incredible view of the city and look at the monument to the Army of the Andes. The monument is also pictured on the Argentine $5 bill.

Mendoza/Courtesy of Roselyn Sebastian

Mendoza/Courtesy of Roselyn Sebastian

San Carlos de Bariloche. Since it’s located in the Southern hemisphere, Argentina’s seasons are flipped. So if you’re craving a ski trip in July, travel to Bariloche for a plethora of winter sports. Getting cold? Head inside any of the several chocolate shops in this self-proclaimed chocolate capital. There’s even a Museum of Chocolate! You can also take a bus ride to Nahuel Huapi National Park, Argentina’s largest national park. At the very least, take a lift up the Cerro Campanario and look at it from above – National Geographic once named this the 8th best view in the world.

Salta. If you like history, you’ll like Salta. The town has several stunning examples of neoclassical architecture, and features several museums packed full of ancient Incan artifacts from the region. Salta is also an excellent starting point for several day trips. Head to Salinas Grandes, which cover 3,200 square miles and are the largest salt flats in the country. You can also take the famed “Train to the Clouds,” which runs over 13,000 feet above sea level and is named as such for the clouds you can see underneath the railway. The train departs at 7AM and returns at midnight, stopping once to let tourists off and shop for folkloric crafts.

Tres Colores Hill/Courtesy of Sasha Graffagna

Tres Colores Hill/Courtesy of Sasha Graffagna

Quebrada de Humahuaca. A UNESCO world heritage site, the Quebrada de Humahuaca valley has been used for over 10,000 years a trade route between the Argentine plains and the high Andean lands. Take a road trip across this stunning valley to check out the ruins of ancient civilizations, like the one at Tilcara, and purchase handmade crafts at the small towns that still dot the region. Don’t forget to pay attention to the beautiful natural wonders, like the Hill of Seven Colors in Pumamarca.

Ushuaia. Arguably the southernmost city in the world, Ushuaia is a major ecotourism destination. If you ever have the chance to go to Antarctica, this is where your ship will depart. This this deepwater port still has plenty to offer even if you’re staying in South America. Go to Tierra del Fuego National Park for spectacular views of birdlife, or head to the Glacier Martial for a panoramic view of the Ushuaia. You can also look at several museums or take a catamaran trip on the Beagle Channel and coo over sea lions and penguins in their natural habitat.

Salt Flats/Courtesy of Sasha Graffagna

Salt Flats/Courtesy of Sasha Graffagna

Need other places to visit this summer? Check out the following articles for more ideas:

Study Abroad: Mexico

Study Abroad: Ireland

Summer 2013 Vacation Locations


Top 5 Places to Go in San Juan, Puerto Rico

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Courtesy of Sasha Graffagna

When it’s 50 degrees in early May, nobody can blame us classy co-eds for dreaming of tropical weather and white sandy beaches. Those dreams can come true in sunny San Juan, Puerto Rico. Just a short flight from many major cities, San Juan is a low-budget summer getaway. If you can make it down there this summer, CL has compiled a list of 5 must-see places in San Juan.

1. El Caribe Hilton. On a co-ed budget, you likely can’t afford to stay at this Hilton. But you can certainly have a drink at the hotel bar, as long as you’re over 18. Have a sip of a cool, frothy piña colada, which was invented here in 1954. And if you are lucky enough to be able to spend the night, make sure to hit up the city’s only private beach.

El Morro/Courtesy of Sasha Graffagna

El Morro/Courtesy of Sasha Graffagna

2. El Morro, La Fortaleza, and Castillo de San Cristobal. San Juan’s many defensive structures no longer fight foreign invaders, but they remain an impressively imposing sight. These structures make up much of Old San Juan, the city’s historic district. Start at the fountain at the end of Paso de la Princes, and follow the stone wall all the way up to the Castle of San Cristobal. Watching the waters of the Pacific lap against the base of this centuries-old fort is a peaceful end to your day, especially if you go at sunset.

3. Isla Verde Beach. You can’t go to Puerto Rico and miss its biggest attraction: the beach! Go to the one closest to your hotel, because in Puerto Rico you really can’t go wrong. Need a change of scenery? Head to Isla Verde and relax on its famous white sand beaches, or swim in the calming waters. There is also a plethora of restaurants, stores and luxury hotels within walking distance.

El Yunque National Forest/Courtesy of Sasha Graffagna

El Yunque National Forest/Courtesy of Sasha Graffagna

4. El Yunque National Forest. OK, so this isn’t technically in San Juan. But at just an hour’s drive away, it’s too amazing to miss. El Yunque covers most of the island’s northeastern region and is the only rainforest in the United States National Forest System. See if you can find a coquí, the world’s smallest frog, only found in Puerto Rico. And if it’s not raining, take a dip in one of El Yunque’s several natural pools. Looking for an adventure? Several companies offer ziplining tours of the lush green forest.

5. Raíces. Looking for a taste of traditional Puerto Rico? Head to Raíces, located in Old San Juan, to sample all of the delicious Puerto Rican food they have to offer. Try the mofongo, which is essentially mashed fried green plantains stuffed with stewed meat or seafood. You might want to save this one for a special occasion though – Raíces can be pretty pricey.

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Image courtesy of lkunl/FreeDigitalPhotos.net

Looking for more budget vacation ideas? Check out:

5 Road Trip Stops in Long Island

City Spotlight: Cancún

5 Pittsburgh Road Trip Stops


Sasha Graffagna, New York University, Social Media Intern & Study Abroad/Travel Editor/Features Writer

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Name: Sasha Graffagna

College Lifestyles ™ Intern Position: Social Media Intern & Study Abroad/Travel Editor/Features Writer

Hometown: Tokyo, Japan

School: New York University

Year in studies: Senior

Major(s)/minor(s)/concentration(s): Journalism and Comparative Literature

Organizational involvement: AIESEC, Theta Phi Beta, Vocollision, Baedeker, Media 4 Humanity, NYU Jazz Choir

I am excited for second semester because: it’s my last semester of college!!

My favorite thing about the Spring is: studying at Washington Square Park when it’s warm outside.

My dream Spring break is: a week in Thailand.

I wish I could study abroad: I’ve already been to Puerto Rico and  Argentina, but I’d love to go to Spain!

My number one DIY craft for this semester is: finally decorating my bedroom.

My fashion and accessory favorites for this Spring are:  bright tights and a cute trench coat.

My dream job is: a novelist or editor-in-chief of my own news publication.

My favorite food is: anything chocolate.

My favorite movies/T.V. shows are: Bones, Glee, New Girl, Law & Order: SVU…there’s too many to count!

My favorite book is: Way too many! But I love LOTR and am super-excited to see The Hobbit.

My celebrity dream date is/with: Joseph Gordon-Levitt.

I get my inspiration from: The New York Times and all of the amazing people I go to school with.

My secret get-away during the semester is: Think Coffee. It’s delicious.

My a cappella group, Vocollision, after our concert!

My friends would describe me as: busy, talkative, and happy.

Three things I want to accomplish before the Summer: graduate college, complete my internships successfully, and get a full-time job!

My favorite College Lifestyles ™ article was: the entire Intern Kitchen series – so many great recipe ideas!

My definition of a classy co-ed is: A woman who balances work and life, who knows how to have fun but can ace a job interview with grace and a smile.

Why I am excited to be a College Lifestyles ™ Intern: Because it’s awesome and I love it!

I got an e-Board position at an NYU club because of the skills I learned with CL!


CL Chats With Study Guru Calvin Newport, Author of “So Good They Can’t Ignore You.”

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With finals upon us all, you’re likely cramming the nights away with pen in hand. Maybe you wish you’d studied more during the semester, or studied better. Cal Newport can help you do just that. The Dartmouth graduate is the author of several study guides that are actually useful, like How to Become a Straight-A Student: The Unconventional Strategies Real College Students Use to Score High While Studying Less. Learn how to avoid finals stress next semester, and check out his latest book: So Good They Can’t Ignore You.
1. You’ve made a career out of dispensing advice to several groups that need it, such as students and now professionals with your new book, So Good They Can’t Ignore You. What prompted you to start writing these types of books?

I like to write about topics relevant to my life at the time. My first three books are about student life because I was a student when I started working on them. My fourth book is about building a meaningful career because I started working on it as I made my transition into the working world.

2. You have two books about college, How To Become a Straight-A Student and How to Win At College. What are your top 3 study tips for college students?

How long you study is meaningless. What matters is how you study. Constantly ask yourself if the way you’re review the material is the most efficient way possible to prepare for the task at the hand. (Hint: if you’re reading and re-reading your notes again and again, the answer to this question is, “no, it’s not.”) Schedule your study time in advance so you can spread it out. Work during the day and do so in isolated, quiet locations. When you’re working, work — no Internet, no phone.

3. Much of your advice in your two college books is best used for freshman and sophomores. What can upperclassmen do to make the most of their remaining college experience?

As you advance through your major program you can shift from figuring out how to be an efficient student to trying to figure out how to be a star. Engage the material. Start things early and work on them longer than is strictly necessary. Do non-assigned readings and attend talks on the material.

4. What was your most controversial tip in your books?

Do less. There’s this myth among students that doing lots of different things is impressive. This is false. You will ultimately be judged by how well you do the thing you’re best at. So choose a single major. Be wary of extracurricular activities. Focus on a small number of things and try to do them exceptional well.

5. Is there any advice in your books that people often disagree with?

Students are uncomfortable doing less because they really do thing that volume of activities matter. It doesn’t.

6. If there was one tip in your books that you would have told yourself as a college student, what would it be?

A lot of what’s found in my college books is based on what I discovered when a college student myself (I was constantly experimenting to see what habits and strategies worked and what didn’t).

 7. What were you like in college? Did you get good grades?

I got very good grades. I studied much less than most people I knew. How? I cared about how I studied. A big theme in my books is that many of the very top scoring students are studying much less than their average scoring peers. The difference is that they think critically about how they do their student work.

8. Unlike your other books, So Good They Can’t Ignore You focuses on professionals and not students. Was this a challenge to write?

This book tackles a question that was relevant to me at the time: why do some people end up loving what they do while so many others don’t?

9. What pieces of advice in your books can be pulled into other aspects of life?

The big discovery in So Good They Can’t Ignore You is that “follow your passion” is bad advice. Why is it bad advice? Because most people don’t have pre-existing passions to be followed. If you study people who love their work they go their not by figuring out in advance that this is their calling, but instead by becoming excellent at rare and valuable skills.

This lesson — that if you become “so good they can’t ignore you” good things will happen to you — seems to be universal, be it a high school student or a mid-career professional.

10. What advice would you give high school seniors who are just finishing up their college applications to make themselves shine?

If you’re finishing up your application than it’s too late to change much about how you look to admissions officers. But looking ahead to your college experience, keep the following in mind: the key to a become a star, while still enjoying your life, is to do a small number of things very well. Pick one major. Have at most one major extracurricular activity. Put your energy in these things.

 11. What advice do you have for aspiring writers?

You have to write a lot. And this writing needs to be, as much as possible, for an editor that will critique it and reject it if it’s not good. This is how you get better.


How To Be Classy: When Discussing Politics

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Never discuss politics or religion in a relationship, goes the old adage. But with the residential debates in full swing and Election Day rushing upon us, political discussion is unavoidable for many co-eds this season. Follow these tips to make it until November 6 with grace and class.

1. Stay open.

Are you a super-conservative student on a mostly liberal campus? No doubt you are sick of your hardcore Democratic classmates and just to tune them out. But don’t. You have a right to believe what you believe, but you should also remember that you are young and that your politics will probably change throughout the course of your life.  Your classmates might not change your mind, but listen to them and stay open.

2. Stay informed.
Nothing reveals how much you keep up with the news like how knowledgeable you are about the Presidential election. As a classy co-ed, not knowing anything about the biggest Americadn news story of 2012 is just embarrassing. What if you have to talk about in class? Or worse, are asked about it at a job interview? Do your homework. Read the front page of a national newspaper every day, or follow a political blog. Watch the debates. At the very least, sign up for a Google Alert for the presidential election.

3. Stay respectful.
So you’re a staunch Obama supporter, know absolutely everything about his campaign, and can prove why Romney would make a terrible President. Great for you, but not everybody else wants to hear about it – especially if that other person is a Republican. You have no idea why someone else thinks the way they do, so don’t pretend you do. Arguing ideas is great; launching into a diatribe is not. And never, EVER resort to making a personal attack on someone else. Not classy.

 4. Know when to say no.

Two of my sorority sisters couldn’t get along for the longest time, because of their different views on abortion. Finally, they came to the mutual decision to never discuss the topic. Yes, political discussion is unavoidable in certain situations. But if you and your best friend can’t agree on a particular issue, agree not to talk about it and stick to that promise. It is better to save a friendship than be right. If an interviewer asks about politics, keep your opinions to yourself and stay neutral. Try pointing out a positive and negative of each candidate, or discussing the different ways their campaigns are being run.

5. Limit your social media.
We all have that one friend who only posts about politics on Facebook or Twitter, and we all know how annoying that is. It’s great that you’re politically involved, but we don’t have to know about it all the time. Live-tweeting a Presidential debate is acceptable, posting a photo of your candidate every day is not. Know the difference. And don’t ever get into a political discussion on someone’s Facebook status. They never end well.


DIY: 10 Halloween Costumes for Broke Co-Eds

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CL DIY: HALLOWEEN COSTUMES

Remember when you were a little girl and loved to play dress-up? Halloween is coming up, so you can relive that thrill all over again. But if you’re anything like us, Halloween costumes are way too expensive for your broke co-ed budget. College Lifestyles helps you out with DIY Halloween costumes for the broke co-ed.

1. Freudian Slip. Wear a slip. Write Freud vocabulary words on pieces of paper and tape them to yourself.

2. Social Butterfly. Wear any dress you like and add a pair of wings, either bought or cut out from poster board. Have fun with the design! – Samantha Schafer, Saint Louis University

3. Animals. Buy a pair of cheap cat or dog ears, and wear all black. Draw a nose and whiskers in on your face with black eyeliner.  Twist a few black pipe cleaners together and safety pin it to your pants to make a tail. – Natalia Weiner, Loyola University Maryland

4. Girl with a Pearl Earring. Pull your hair up into a ponytail. Add a blue headscarf and a pearl earring. Glue four thin strips of cardboard together to make a frame you can carry around.

5. Crime Scene. Make a tube dress out of caution tape. – Kristen Tomkowid, Ithaca College

6. Playing Cards. Make a tube dress out of white duct tape, and draw on the symbols of playing cards with permanent marker. Go with three friends to become the Queens of all the suits. – Rachel Crocetti, Hofstra University

7. Mozilla Firefox. Wear an orange dress and add or make orange fox ears. Carry around a plastic blue globe. Alternatively, blow up a blue balloon and draw the world map on it.

8. Horror Movie Wedding. Fun group costume! Find cheap ugly prom dresses for bridesmaids, a white dress for the bride, and a ‘tux’ for the groom. Cut into them with scissors. Cake on white face makeup, and add ‘blood’ with red face paint. – Shelly Marie Redmond, College Lifestyles CEO

9. Ninja. Wear all black. Wrap a black scarf around your head, and cut two eyeholes in it. – Kristen Tomkowid, Ithaca College

10. Anything! Wear a sandwich board. If you can’t find one, take two pieces of poster board. Punch holes into the top corners, and tie them together with string, leaving enough space for you between them. Draw on whatever you like- you can be a Facebook profile page, a Pacman board, a cell phone, anything! – Emily O’Brien, Hofstra University

What are you going to be for Halloween? Tweet us @collegelifestyl, or send us your photos on Instagram @collegelifestyles 2008.


Interview with Kayla Brianna

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Looking for a new artist to go with a new school year? A few months ago, College Lifestyles interviewed Kayla Brianna, a fresh up-and-coming R&B star, who released her music video “If You Love Me.” We spoke to the 18-year-old UCLA sophomore about balancing her Music Business major and her career and the life of a college-student pop star.

College Lifestyles: How did you get into music?
Kayla Brianna: I’m 18 years old and currently balancing music and school. So if I’m not in the studio or writing or running around trying to do something with music, I’m in school and I have night classes at the moment. And I sing classic R&B, as I like to call it. Basically it’s R&B, but when I look back at my lyrics, what I’m talking about I think, OK, this is a litlte edgy. And I don’t want to call it edgy R&B, so I put sassy R&B to title my music. Right now, I have my music video, it’s “If You Love Me” and eventually that’s going to go to radio or do a different single that I have. It’s really exciting and I’m glad I’m able to do both at the moment.

CL: What do you think is the most difficult of balancing school and work and how do you go about achieving that?
KB: I think the most difficult part is probably being able to keep up with your homework and what’s going on in class. you’re going to miss class, but i also think it’s important to communicate with your teacher. There’s emails, there’s so much technology around us there’s no excuse not to contact your teacher if you think you’re going to miss class. Because I’ve gotten knocked down so many times just for not contacting my teacher if I know I’m going to miss class. So I just think it helps that you contact your teacher, so you don’t get marked down as much.not

CL: Your father, Kenny Smith, is a retired basketball player. What was it like growing up with such a famous father?
KB: I think I was a lot younger when he was more in his prime, when he was actually in the NBA. I don’t really remember going to games and things like that. I think I’ve always been used to him just being “Dad.” He’s always just been Dad to me and I’m thankful for all that he’s taught me. Like to stay humble and just really be appreciative of what I have and what I’m going through as far as music and everything. He’s taught me a lot about how to stay grounded and stay on the right path because you never know what could happen. You get influenced by a lot around you, so he’s definitely taught me a lot and I’m so thankful of him being supportive of my career.

CL: Have you ever received any accusations of nepotism at all? Have people said, oh, she got where she is because of her dad? And if so, how do you deal with that?
KB: Oh, definitely. I just think that because of who he is, they think that I haven’t worked to get where I am. This was a 4-year process to me. A lot of people think it happened overnight. I was in girls’ groups before that didn’t work out. I’ve been trying to get deals with other labels and it didn’t work out. And finally, Interscope came along. And I’m just thankful that it finally happened the way I wanted it to, and it didn’t happen overnight. So I mean, I work hard and I think knowing your spot and what it took to get you here really equals out all the nepotism and what people said. It’s kind of funny to me. I’m like, really? I know what I went through. So it doesn’t really faze me. I think just showing people my talent and performing and things like that is what will – I don’t want to say shut them up, but you know.

CL: Do you follow basketball? What’s your favorite team?
KB: I follow basketball, and my favorite team right now is the Clippers. And a lot of people are like, oh, you’re on the bandwagon, blah blah blah. But I’ve liked the Clippers for a while. I’m from LA, so.

CL: Why did you decide that you wanted to become a singer? How did you get involved with R&B?
KB: As a child, I always admired and was so intrigued by the performances – if we were watching the Grammys or any awards shows, just the performances I was like, wow. The fact that they can perform in front of all those people, and then perform on the TV, and how many people they’re reaching. It’s so crazy. I was always shy as a kid. I always wanted to sing, but I was so shy. I was unbelievably shy. I never sang for both my parents till I was probably 10 or 11. That serious. But I finally got over my fear and I think just singing for them and being able to comfortable around them boosted my confidence a little bit and I got over the shyness and I think the feeling it gives me of being able to touch others with my singing or my lyrics is just amazing, that you can have that effect on people. So I just think how you get to inspire people is really what draws me into singing.

CL: Who would you consider some of your musical role models?
KB: Some of my musical role models…they vary a lot because I will take something from an artist, like how they perform, and that’s something that will inspire me, or how they write music. I would say Beyonce, Frank Ocean, I love his lyrics, Brandy, I think my sound is definitely influenced by her. So those are definitely people who inspired me and who I aspire to be like, eventually.

CL: How did you get involved with Interscope Records?
KB: Well I was in a girl group, and it didn’t work out but it really prepared me being in the studio and getting used to choreography and dancing and singing at the same time. So I was working on my solo project, and I was just recording demos basically and shopping my demos around. And then Vincent Herbert, who’s one of the major forces behind Lady Gaga, and many other artists, heard one of my demos, which is just crazy. Crazy. And he suggested that I work with these producers, called the Interns. And they have Big Sean Records, they have a song on Rihanna’s album. And with them, we did a remake of “If You Love Me.” And an executive, who works at Interscope, and said, I want to meet her. This was about 2 years ago. So I got to meet him, and he has worked at Interscope and worked with a lot of artists like Christina Aguilera, so I was so nervous. But he basically signed me to Interscope, and the rest was history.

CL: “If You Love Me” is partially your lyrics and partially a cover of an older song by Brownstone. Why did you pick that song?
KB: I think since we decided to do the remake, just the fact that it’s so universal. A lot of the 90s were very strong and very straightforward in their music, so I really wanted to portray that again. The lyrics are very universal and very straightforward. If you love me, say it. If you trust me, do it. I thought a lot of people could relate to it, because i want my music to be very personable and relatable, so I thought it was really important that if this is the first single it’s something universal. so that was our whole thought process behind it.

CL: What’s the best love advice you’ve ever received?
KB: It’s probably from a movie or something, but I think the best love advice that I always remember is to stay true to yourself and your beliefs. It sounds so cliche but it’s true. Don’t change for any man, basically.

CL: What’s your favorite part of your job? What’s your least favorite?
KB: My favorite part is doing all the choreography for the songs. Just practicing and going into that whole process because I’m so excited when I make an uptempo track, because I’m like, oh, I wonder what the dance is going to look like. I wonder what the video will look. So I think that whole part, the dance side, because I really love performing live and I really want my shows to be on point all the time. So that’s probably my favorite part.

The least favorite part is probably – there’s a lot of waiting around being a new artist. Some days you can be in the studio back to back to back, and the next week you could just be at home or just going to school every day. But it’s funny because a typical day could sometimes be going to the studio and going to the rehearsals and then going to class, or going to studio and going to class. But there’s definitely a lot of waiting and I’m so anxious to get this project off the ground. But that’s probably the worst part.

CL: Are you coming out with an album?
KB: At end of the year sometime. It’s called “Love Reality” and it’s basically the reality of doing what you love.

CL: What’s the most important lesson you’ve learned since becoming a singer?
KB: I think definitely trying not to feed into the negative energy because that can really bring you down, especially being new to the game and reading what everyone has to say can definitely weigh down on you because you start to believe it. But you have to make sure you maintain positivity and you know how well you are and remind yourself of how hard you work so that the negativity doesn’t affect you.

CL: What do you think has contributed the most to your success as a singer?
KB: I think so far the beats, the tracks, and the lyrics speak for itself. I think it could have aired on the radio and no one liked the song, but it’s a good song and people liked it. But that definitely contributed to where I’m at so far and where I’m going to continue to go.

CL: Do you have any personal traits that were really important in letting you get here?
KB: I love to perform. Just the feeling of onstage. I always make sure to leave my heart on the stage, each and every time. So just me being an all-around performer and being able to play piano, and write lyrics, and dance. I think it definitely contributed to where I’m at and where I’m going to go. So I’m just really excited to be able to perform for more people. I had fun at the NBA All-Star game, I got to perform there. But lately it’s been Interscope Record executives and things like that. So I want to perform for my fans that are out there so far, and you know my potential fans. So I’m just really excited to perform.

CL: What has been the most exciting moment of this job?
KB: Just seeing the progress and basically for a while I was just seeing all the behind-the-scenes things and anxiously waiting to put my music out. So finally when it’s out, and when people can hear it and be able to talk to me on Twitter or go to my website, just seeing the progress has been so amazing. And being able to talk to the fans I have so far. Just seeing how I inspired them and how “If You Love Me” touched them or how it got them through their day, listening to the car, or I don’t know. Just being able to see the progression.

CL: Where do you hope to go from here? What’s your ultimate dream?
KB: I definitely want to use my singing as a platform to be able to touch other people like with some kind of charity work or going on mission trips. I also want to do maybe my own clothing line or jewelry line or makeup line, something that us girls like to do. I also want to get into acting. I kind of want to put my feet in everything while I can.

CL: Are there any extracurriculars that you’re passionate about?
KB: I think anything to do with art – I really like to draw a lot and sketch. I used to play basketball. But I definitely like to keep in shape, so working out. i actually run cross-country for two years in high school as well, so that was interesting. besides from that, just being a normal teenager. being at home with family, or going out with my friends, or going to the movies. on the computer, on Facebook and Twitter. Just chilling, also. because a lot of times it’s go-go-go, so when I don’t have anything to do it’s kind of nice to just be at home.

CL: As a freshman (at the time) in college and living at home, do you find that odd at all?
KB: I think you get looked at differently sometimes. But I do have a lot of friends on campus, so I always just go to my friend’s dorm. I still have a lot of friends on campus. At first, it was kind of weird, but now it’s fine. I think once you find your set group of friends, it’s fine.

CL: What was the hardest part of you adjusting to college?
KB: I think the workload. I feel like senior year is such a breeze, second-semester senior was a joke. There was barely any homework, and if there was it was nothing. After graduating and having the whole summer and jumping into schoolwork was definitely, oh, I forgot what school was going to be like. Jumping back into the swing of things was the

CL: What exactly is sassy R&B? What do you mean by that?
KB: Well, I’ll just give you examples of songs on my album. There’s a song called “Nothing Like A Boy,” and basically it’s me talking to a boy, telling him that I don’t want anything like a boy. I want a man and I need you to be a man in this situation. It’s very straightforward. Each song on my album has a message that you’re going to know by the time you’ve finished hearing it. Oh, she was trying to say this. Oh, she’s going through this. Very straightforward and I have a sassy way of telling the boy or whoever I’m talking to in the song.

CL: Would you say that the majority of your songs are about relationships or do they cover a wider range of topics?
KB: It covers a wide range. There’s songs about love, there’s songs about me wanting to be alone in my quiet place. There’s songs about me dealing with the nepotism that we were talking about earlier, it’s called “Sweet Revenge.” What to do when dealing with a heartbreak. Instead of being upset and down about it, I say, look where you can go now that this happened. I was trying to be encouraging and positive about it. So I’m just really excited for people to hear it and get their take on it.

CL: What advice do you have for aspiring musicians?
KB: I would say always, every day, try to do something to better yourself or better your craft. Always be ready to perform or to sing at the drop of a hat, because that’s basically what I had to do. And it’s always better to be prepared than when finally the opportunity comes along and you’re not prepared because you didn’t think anything was going to happen. So just always better yourself if there’s an opportunity coming or if there’s not. It’s always going to benefit you in the long run.

Want to know more about Kayla Brianna? Fan her Facebook page, check out her website, or follow her on Twitter @kaylabriannax.



How To: Get Back in School Mode

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It’s that time of year again! The freshman have flooded the campus, back-to-school sales are well underway, and your classes have all finished Syllabus Week. But if you’re anything like me, the continuous heat still has you dreaming of lazy Sundays at the beach. Don’t worry too much about your GPA, though, because CL has you covered with our 5 ways to get back into school mode.

1. Get a calendar.
Maybe you interned with Apple this summer. Maybe you just lazed around and hung out with your cat. Either way, with classes and extracurriculars, you’re bound to be busier now than in the summer. So get a reliable calendar and write ALL your commitments in it to keep track of everything. It doesn’t matter whether it’s electronic or on paper, as long as it works for you.

2. (Re)decorate your room.
Have you ever noticed how much a change in your environment affects your mood? That’s great news, because you probably have moved into a new place for the school year. So make it as home-y and as conducive to studying as possible. If you’re staying in the same place, change something small, like the shelves on your desk or the pictures on your wall.

3. Go to the gym.
OK, so this doesn’t work if you’re normally at the gym. But if you spent all summer doing nothing, regular physical exercise will paradoxically give you even more energy. And help you look great.

4. Read the newspaper.
You should read the newspaper all the time, if you can’t. But it’s particularly useful when you’re in school. It’ll give you conversation topics with your peers, and you can bring in any relevant articles to your classes and talk about them. Maybe you’ll even get extra credit.

5. Throw yourself into extracurriculars.
Classes might be boring, but you know you missed all the clubs you’re involved in at school. Throw yourself back into them to start having fun and getting yourself back into school mode. If you’re not in any clubs, join some! They will be the sources of some of your best college memories.



Meet Returning Editor, NYU Senior Sasha Graffagna!

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Me at Washington Square Park

Name: Sasha Graffagna

Position: Editor/Features Writer

College/University: New York University

Year in studies: Senior

Major/minor: Journalism & Comparative Literature

Organizational involvement: Theta Phi Beta, NYU Ballrom Dance Team, NYU Women’s Choir

I show my school spirit by: being involved in clubs and proudly repping NYU around the world.

My favorite thing about Fall is: buying new fall boots and apple cider.

For Halloween I will be: who knows? Maybe an anime character.

Neon pants – yay or nay?: Yay!

Twitter or Facebook?: Twitter! Follow me @SashaGraffagna

My sister and I on vacation in Croatia.

I love Pinterest because: it allows me to dream big. Follow me here!

My favorite color is: too many to choose, but if I had to probably hot pink.

My go-to accessory is: my watch and a pair of my many earrings.

My favorite store is: H&M.

My favorite food is: chocolate and anything Japanese.

My favorite movies/TV shows are: Bones, How I Met Your Mother, Glee.

My favorite book is: the Outlander series by Diana Gabaldon, but this changes nonstop because I read all the time.

My favorite magazine is: Cosmopolitan.

My pet is: a 14-year old black lab, Danny.

Danny!

My favorite quote is, because:

A couple hundred years ago, Benjamin Franklin shared with the world the secret of his success. “Never leave that till tomorrow,” he said, “which you can do today.” This is the man who discovered electricity. You’d think more of us would listen to what he had to say. I don’t know why we put things off, but if I had to guess, I’d say it has a lot to do with fear.Fear of failure, fear of pain, fear of rejection. Sometimes, the fear is just of making a decision. Because, what if you’re wrong? What if you’re making a mistake you can’t undo? Whatever it is we’re afraid of, one thing holds true. That, by the time the pain of not doing a thing gets worse than the fear of doing it, it can feel like we’re carrying around a giant tumor. And you thought I was speaking metaphorically.

The early bird catches the worm. A stitch in time saves nine. He who hesitates is lost. We can’t pretend we haven’t been told. We’ve all heard the proverbs, heard the philosophers, heard our grandparents warning us about wasted time, heard the damn poets urging us to seize the day. Still, sometime we have to see for ourselves. We have to make our own mistakes. We have to learn our own lessons. We have to sweep today’s possibility under tomorrow’s rug until we can’t anymore, until we finally understand for ourselves what Benjamin Franklin meant. That knowing is better than wondering. That waking is better than sleeping. And that even the biggest failure, even the worst, most intractable mistake beats the hell out of never trying.  - Grey’s Anatomy

It’s beautiful. What else is there to say?

My role model is, because: my close friends, who are at my level and yet somehow do so much more than me and I struggle to catch up.

I spend my weekends…: napping, clubbing, and doing homework.

I take a break from studying by…: meeting friends for coffee.

I de-stress by…: napping.

My secret talent is: songwriting.

My friends describe me as: hyper and loud.

My pledge group, reunited after I was abroad all year.

My favorite College Lifestyles article is: any of our interviews, like this one with fashion blogger Anna James.

Why I am excited to be an intern for College Lifestyles: because I’ve had a blast this past year and can’t wait for more!

My definition of a classy co-ed: a lady who can savvily maneuver through the trials of 21st-century college life with a smile on her face and her reputation intact.

Sasha Graffagna a senior at New York University.  Follow her at @SashaGraffagna.  To stay tuned to more articles for classy co-eds be sure to follow College Lifestyles on Facebook, Pinterest, and Twitter.

 


5 Things To Do When You Have Nothing To Do This Summer

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Now that it’s mid-June, most summer jobs and internships are fully underway. But in today’s competitive job market, you might be stuck internship-less, jobless, and with nothing to do this summer. Instead of feeling sorry for yourself, try one (or all!) of College Lifestyles’  5 things to do when you have nothing to do this summer.

 

Volunteer. So it’s not paid, but then again, neither are most internships. Volunteering is a great way to help out a community, boost your resume, and improve your own self-esteem. Why not see what you can do for your Presidential candidate’s campaign? If politics aren’t your thing and you don’t know where to start, check out VolunteerMatch and Idealist, both of which connect would-be volunteers with organizations in need.

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Read. Remember when you used to read for pleasure? Then, you went to college, read only textbooks, and decided reading was a terrible pastime. Summer is a great time to rediscover the literary world. If you have  a competitive streak, set a goal for the number of books you want to finish before school starts. If you’re more social, create a book club with your friends, or just join one online. This is another great resume booster. Potential employers love to ask about the last book you read, and you want to be able to say something other than an obvious college text. Need ideas? Check out CL’s Summer Reading List!

Get fit. So you were going to get a beach body by July…but you didn’t. No matter. You may not make it to the Olympics, but you can still get fitter than you’ve ever been. Set a fitness goal for yourself and strive to achieve it, whether that’s becoming a certified fitness trainer or just running a 5K. You may not dazzle at the beach in September, but all the boys on campus will go, whoa, look at her.

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Learn something new. Always wanted to learn piano or karate? What better time could there be to start? Find a class and meet new people, or get some books and do it yourself. Try getting a parent to teach you how to cook, which will serve you forever and allow you bonding time with Mom or Dad. Another useful skill is coding. It’s complicated and requires energy, but it will looks super-impressive to potential employers, especially if you’re in any industry that’s still struggling with the Internet.

Tackle a big project. Do you love looking at fashion blogs? Start one yourself. Is clutter threatening to overwhelm your apartment? Organize it. Have you always wanted to write a novel? Do it. Summer is a time for dreams – make one of yours, big or small, come true, all by yourself.

Just because you didn’t get any jobs or internships doesn’t make your summer a waste. That said, check out College Lifestyles’ internship tips and Job Bank to avoid your plight next year.

Sasha Graffagna is a rising senior at New York University majoring in Journalism and Comparative Literature. This summer, she is working as an usher and interning for CL, Datingish, and L7.


25 Facts About CL Editor Sasha Graffagna

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   Name: Sasha Graffagna 

   Position: Editor

   University: New York University

Major: Journalism + Comparative Literature

Organizational Involvement: Theta Phi Beta Sorority, NYU Women’s Choir, NYU Ballroom Dance Team

Pets: My black lab Danny!

My pledge group and I (we're tiny, I know)

Nickname: Sushi + Snoopy

Dream Job: Travel Writer

Favorite color: Teal and Hot Pink.

Favorite candy: Butterfinger.

Favorite movie: These are impossible…but I loved The Shawshank Redemption, which I just saw.

Favorite cuisine: Japanese!

Favorite season: Summer. Nothing beats the beach.

 

Coffee vs Tea: Do I have to choose?

PC vs Mac: PC

Coke vs Pepsi: Neither. I can’t stand soda.

Stripes vs Polka Dots: Polka dots. So preppy-chic!

 

My family and I in Tokyo for New Year's.

3 words to describe me: talkative, well-traveled, optimist.

3 words to describe my style: casual, diverse, city-girl

 

On a weekend to trip to Cabo Rojo from my exchange semester in Puerto Rico.

You will find on my desk: a giant mess.

You will find on my DVR/Tivo: New Girl, How I Met Your Mother, 2 Broke Girls, Hart of Dixie, Once Upon A Time

You will find on my Ipod: J-Pop, regular pop, and Latin music.

You will find in my refrigerator: a lot of Japanese food.

I have a slight obsession with: coffee, chocolate, and Glee.

I dislike: closed-mindedness.

My friends would say I am: hyper and talkative.

I am most happy when: I am traveling.

Most people are surprised to know I: speak 3 languages! English, Spanish, and Japanese.

A classy co-ed is: a sophisticated woman who knows that college isn’t everything, but is out to enjoy every last minute of it.

Sasha Graffagna is a rising senior at New York University. She is studying Journalism and Comparative Literature, and super-excited for her last summer as a college student!


What To Pack For A 3-Day Weekend

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Off for a weekend trip this Memorial Day? Check out our handy guide on what to pack!

 

 

1. Bottoms: Jeans, Shorts, Skirt.

Assuming you’re gone for 3 days, 3 bottoms are all you need. Jeans go with everything and can be worn more than once, which is perfect for a vacation, especially if there’s a chance you’ll stay there longer than expected. Shorts are a summer staple, and a mid-length skirt can be dressed up or down to suit the occasion.

2. Tops: Cardigan, Tank, 2 T-Shirts.

On a weekend trip away, layering can be your best friend. Especially in the summer, when the days are super-hot and the nights can get surprisingly cold. So bring 2 regular tops, but add a tank and a cardigan for layering purposes. Also, bring both tops and bottoms in neutral colors so it’s easier to match.

3. Shoes: Gladiator Sandals, Heels.

In the summer, gladiator sandals will take you pretty much anywhere. On the off chance they won’t, bring a pair of simple heels. Just make sure to keep your toes prettily pedicured.

Gladiator Sandals, $30

4. Bags: Clutch, Tote.

A clutch and an everyday bag are all you need on vacation. If you’re headed to the beach, try a straw tote. If you’re lucky, you’ll have a tote large enough to carry all your items to your destination.

5. Makeup + Accessories: Bright and Few.

Just because your tops and bottoms are neutral doesn’t mean your entire outfit has to be boring. Try brightening up your look with your makeup and accessories. Just don’t go overboard – think a couple of statement pieces, not your entire closet.

L'Oreal Teal Eyeliner, $8.49

6. Miscellaneous: Sunglasses, Extra Underwear, Swimsuit, Chargers.

Sunglasses and a swimsuit are summer staples that everybody always forgets. Bring the swimsuit even if a pool or beach are not in your plans – you never know when you might need it. As for the extra underwear? If you end up staying an extra day, it’s the one thing you’re really going to want.  The chargers go without saying, if you’re bringing any kind of electronics (iPod, cell phone, laptop).

What do you normally bring on a 3-day weekend? Let us know in the comments!

Sasha Graffagna is a junior at New York University studying Journalism and Comparative Literature. She is currently on exchange at La Universidad del Sagrado Corazón in San Juan, Puerto Rico.


Style by the City: Miami

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You may be slaving away through finals, but your wardrobe doesn’t have to look like it. Take some inspiration from a tropical city like Miami, Florida, to add a little summer fun to your wardrobe.

 

Casual Outfit: Freedom Tower

Style by the City: Miami: Casual Outfit: Freedom Tower
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With its fresh architecture, Miami’s Freedom Tower is a great inspirational outfit for a stylish summer casual outfit. Start with a pair of white pants (5), $24.95, and a cropped yellow shirt (1), $44.90, which is in keeping with the tower’s color scheme. Beige wedge sandals (4), $39.99, and a straw clutch (2), $16.80, neutralize the outfit and keep the outfit dressy but casual. But since it’s summer, don’t be afraid to go a little overboard on the brights – we chose  feather turquoise earrings (3), $14, and red lipstick (6), $14.50 in honor of the Cuban flag – the Freedom Tower is currently being used as a Cuban refugee center.

Evening Outfit: Ancient Spanish Monastery
Style by the City: Miami: Evening Outfit: Ancient Spanish Monastery
Headed to formal or prom? Take a style cue from the glory of the Ancient Spanish Monastery. A beaded white strapless dress (2), $34.99, is simple and elegant, especially when paired with strappy silver sandals (5), $20.70.  If you’re looking for a more trendy look, or you just want to fight excess air conditioning, add a dark green cropped jacket (1), $41.81, for the monastery’s beautiful gardens. Keep with the greenery theme with a rosette clutch (3), $19.50, and finish off the look with a clock bracelet (4), $22.50, in honor of the monastery’s clock tower.
Internship Outfit: Coral Castle
Style by the City: Miami: Internship Outfit: Coral Castle
The stones of Coral Castle may be a dull gray, but its name and the ground its built on is a beautiful coral. Work this summery color into your wardrobe with a bright coral dress (2), $92. Keep the rest of the outfit neutral with a gray jacket (1), $29.90, and a buckled gray tote (3), $30. Neutral doesn’t have to mean boring those, as these geometric pumps (5), $39,  show. Polish the look with a pair of green heart earrings (4), $20, for the grounds’ greenery and the love that inspired the castle’s existence – it was supposedly built by a man in honor of the love of his life.

Sasha Graffagna is a New York University junior studying Journalism and Comparative Literature. She is currently on exchange at La Universidad del Sagrado Corazón in San Juan, Puerto Rico. Follow her on Polyvore at sasha74.


How To Get A Career Wardrobe On A College Budget

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Whether you’re graduating this year or just on your way to a summer internship, developing a career wardrobe can be an expensive challenge. College Lifestyles helps you out with our collection of basic businesswoman staples at college student prices.

 

Shoes:

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A pair of basic black ballet flats (1), $18, will get you through almost any work event. Want a little color? Red flats (2), $12.95, are cute and work-appropriate. Feed your heel obsession with a pair of nude pumps (3), $24.97, that go with almost everything and elongate your legs. And if all else fails, you can never go wrong with a pair of black pumps (4), $19.90.

Tops:

College Lifestyles: Affordable Work Purchases: Tops
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A black blazer (1), $29.80,  is the LBD of jackets – goes everywhere and with everything. Switch it out for a white blazer (2), $29.95, for a more summery look. A white button-down (3), $22, is another basic staple, but pay extra attention to the fit when you buy it, and keep it ironed! A wrinkled shirt that gapes at the chest just screams unprofessional. For a break from all the neutrals, grab a V-neck sweater in a muted bright or pastel, like this ice blue one (4), $16.90.

Accessories:

College Lifestyles: Affordable Work Purchases: Accessories
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If you spend money on one thing in your wardrobe, invest in a large, structured bag (1), $35, that will last you for years. A french manicure (2), $2.14, might not seem important, but it’s an essential detail that will pull your look together. Don’t spend too much money on your pantyhose (3), $9, since they’re guaranteed to rip anyway. And find a simple watch (4), $9.99, that looks expensive but isn’t, because constantly checking your phone for the time will surely irritate your boss.

Bottoms:

College Lifestyles: Affordable Work Purchases: Bottoms
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A pair of black pants (1), $24.90,  is versatile and makes up a suit when paired with a button-down shirt and a blazer. If you’re more of a skirt girl, go for a pencil skirt (2), $20,  that hits just above the knee. A pleated A-line (3), $29.98,  is great for more casual days and keeps you cool in the summer. If you’re lucky enough to get to wear jeans, go for a dark-rinse pair (4), $19.90. Just make sure to keep the rest of your look immaculate.

Did we miss any of your career wardrobe staples? Have you ever gotten a great deal on an expensive purchase? Let us know in the comments!

Sasha Graffagna is a junior at New York University studying Journalism and Comparative Literature. Follow her on Polyvore at sasha74.


5 Ways With Popcorn

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A bag of microwave un-buttered popcorn is a super-fast, surprisingly healthy snack. Unfortunately, it can also get pretty boring. Jazz up your Friday movie night with our popcorn recipes and the perfect movie for each one.

 

1) Popcorn Italiano (Adapted from the Food Network’s How To Boil Water):

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To Watch: An Italian-inspired movie, like Roman Holiday.

To Eat: Pour popcorn out into a large bowl. Add a dash of extra virgin olive-oil, and a pinch of garlic powder. Add a generous helping of italian seasoning. If you’re out, mix together any combination of dried basil, dried rosemary, thyme, and oregano. Finish the recipe with a few sprinkles of parmesan cheese.

2) Movie Theater Popcorn

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To Watch: A timeless classic, like The Wizard of Oz.

To Eat: Crush pretzels into small pieces. Mix with popcorn in large bowl. Add a small handful of Milk Duds and M&Ms. Top with some cinnamon sugar to taste.

3) Power Popcorn (Adapted from Eat Drink Better)

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To Watch: A inspiring athletic movie, like Prefontaine.

To Eat: Pour popcorn into large bowl. Add sunflower seeds, nuts, and some dried fruits. For nuts, we like chopped walnuts, but try sliced almonds if you’re in a hurry. For the fruits, raisins are standard. Try dried figs or apricots for a gourmet touch.

4) Hot & Spicy Popcorn

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To Watch: A thriller, like Columbiana.

To Eat: Pour popcorn into a large bowl. Add a bit of shredded cheese when still hot and toss until it melts a little. For spice, sprinkle on cayenne pepper, paprika, and as much hot sauce as you can handle.

5) Cookies & Cream Popcorn (Adapted from Handle the Heat)

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To Watch: A chick flick, like When Harry Met Sally.

To Eat: Melt some white chocolate (6 oz for every 13 of a cup) in the microwave. Pour over freshly popped popcorn, and toss with a spoon to coat. Chop up some chocolate cookies (Oreos anyone?) and mix together. Wait about 10-15 minutes until it sets, or stick it in the fridge for about 5 if you’re impatient.

What are your favorite popcorn recipes? Let us know in the comments!

Sasha Graffagna is a current junior at New York University studying Journalism and Comparative Literature. She is currently on exchange at La Universidad del Sagrado Corazón in San Juan, Puerto Rico.


College Lifestyles Interviews La Carmina: Fashion Blogger, TV Host, World Traveler

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Want to travel the world? Be on TV? Write a book? La Carmina has done all that and more.  After being accepted to Yale Law School at just 20 years old, La Carmina needed a creative outlet and began a style blog in September 2007. Since then, La Carmina has acquired an impressive resume a mere 7 years after her graduation from Columbia University. College Lifestyles had the chance to pick this multimedia guru’s brain, and find out how you can do all the cool things she does – for a living.

 

College Lifestyles (CL): Could you explain for our readers what exactly it is you do?
La Carmina (LC): I’m a travel and fashion TV host, journalist, and blogger at http://www.lacarmina/com/blog. My focus is on alternative and Gothic youth subcultures, in Japan and all over the world. I was born in Vancouver, Canada and studied at Columbia University and Yale Law, but I started a blog and it led me down a life-changing road. I’m now the author of 3 books — including Cute Yummy Time (Penguin) and Crazy, Wacky Theme Restaurants: Tokyo (Random House) — and a journalist for CNN, Huffington Post, AOL. My ”First Mate” and I started a TV fixing, hosting and coolhunting (CL Note: ie trendspotting) firm, called “La Carmina & The Pirates.” I also host my own web series for AOL / Huffington Post, and constantly travel for appearances and press trips (this year, I participated in a panel and sat front row at New York Fashion Week). Right now, my focus is on television presenting; my credits include The Today Show, Travel Channel, NHK Japan, Fuel/Discovery/National Geographic, Food Network, Pepsi, Sony, Norway TV, CNN. All my TV clips are here.

CL: How did you start each of these ventures?
LC: From the start, my blog focused on my passion: Japanese, alternative and subculture style. As fashion blogging blew up, I was fortunate to have opportunities to host TV shows, travel (New York, Italy, Hong Kong, Mexico, Japan), and write for major publishers and media organizations. My site organically led to these opportunities; Andrew Zimmern’s production company found me because I wrote a book about theme restaurants and blogged about bizarre Japanese cafes. They invited to be the guide on Bizarre Foods in Tokyo. After, I kept receiving television hosting and arranging offers, so I started a company with my First Mate Naomi, called La Carmina & The Pirates. We also do coolhunting, consulting, Tokyo tour guiding and other missions.

CL: What is a typical day like for you?
LC: Each day is different, depending on whether I’m on a TV shoot, traveling, or working on my site and Pirate jobs. If I’m on a travel TV shoot, it’s go-go-go from morning to night. There’s tons of advance planning, from getting filming permits to sorting out each step of the itinerary. On low-key days, I spend time with my Scottish Fold cat, Basil Farrow, and catch up on the deluge of emails that never seems to end.

La Carmina Modeling in Florence (Photo Credit: La Carmina)

CL: By the looks of it, you’re an extremely busy person – how do you manage your time?
LC: I believe in “working smart.” A lot of people work themselves to the ground for no reason or gain. I think it’s important to manage your time well, say no to the unessential tasks, and delegate. Fortunately, since my work is strongly personality-based, work and play are usually linked.

CL: How did you become interested in Japanese culture?
LC: Since my family is from Asia, we often traveled to Japan when I was young. In my early teens, I visited Harajuku and adored the vibrant street fashion and culture – Jrock, Gothic Lolita, Punk, Kawaii. This was the initial spark that led to where I am today. I continue to be fascinated by Japanese pop culture, such as the weird theme restaurants and cute bento boxes.

CL: How did last year’s 3/11 earthquake affect your work?
LC: Many of my friends were affected by the disaster, and I wanted to do something to help. I fundraised in LA, and released two design collaborations to benefit Japan: a HOPE benefit t-shirt with Like Atmosphere, and a panda bear necklace with Soho Hearts. Both are for sale here, with proceeds going to the earthquake and tsunami victims. These charity collections are meaningful to me because they’re an artistic response to the disaster; a way to raise awareness and rebuild. On the anniversary of the earthquake and tsunami (March 11), I also teamed up with two amazing Industrial dancers, tank9 and Mary Nine. We filmed a dance video in Seattle, for Ridley Scott’s “Japan in a Day” project — you can watch it here. Our footage captures the immense positivity and energy of youths teaming up for an important cause.

HOPE Benefit T-Shirt (Photo Credit: La Carmina)

CL: Why do you think you’ve become so successful as an online presence, and how can CL readers do the same?
LC: Part of it is luck and good timing; I started La Carmina blog in 2007, when blogging was a relatively new phenomenon. I posted frequently, participated in social networks and built everything up gradually. I also feel that when an opportunity presents itself, you should try to take it as far as it can go — the sky’s the limit. I never dreamed I could have these amazing gigs in travel and TV, but now it’s my life.

CL: How did your undergraduate experience shape your career?
LC: I studied at Columbia University in New York City. I like to say I majored in “nightcrawling,” since I probably learned more from the city’s alt nightlife than the classroom! However, I loved my school’s Core Curriculum, and humanities courses in Japanese culture and philosophy. Going to Columbia and Yale Law let me explore my interests and figure out what I wanted to do.

CL: What advice do you have for aspiring writers/fashion designers/TV hosts?
LC: Prove that you’ve got the track-record (schooling, portfolio of successful projects). Show numbers and the results that you can
deliver. And only work with people who “get it.” You have something special to offer, a window into the world you inhabit — so make sure your clients appreciate and respect that. I think a college education always helps to broaden your mind, and get you where you want to be.

CL: What’s your favorite place you’ve been and why?
LC: I love Tokyo’s spooky scene. You’ll always find me and my friends at Goth Industrial and Fetish parties. I also spend too much time in the Japanese Lolita Jrock Punk second hand store, Closet Child.

CL: What’s your favorite part of the job? What’s the most difficult?
LC: Nothing makes me happier than hearing from readers, who say my blog brightened up their day, or inspired/ helped them in some way. Sometimes it’s challenging to work for yourself — you have to always juggle and chase new projects — but I love the freedom and flexibility it gives me.

CL: How do you manage your personal relationships when you travel so much?
LC: Skype and email makes it easy to keep in touch. And my Scottish Fold cat, Basil Farrow is endlessly forgiving.

La Carmina and Basil Farrow (Photo Credit: La Carmina)

CL: Goth-Loli style is beautiful but very dramatic. What is a good ’starter outfit’ for someone who wants to incorporate a little bit of this style in their wardrobe?
LC: There’s no rulebook that states you must own certain items or wear expensive Japanese brands to enter this lovely world. Instead, you can make Lolita a part of your life in many small ways. And the further you explore this wonderland, the more your confidence will grow. Start with tiny “tips of the hat” to Lolita fashion in your daily wear. For example, you might wear a big bow in your hair, or doll eyelashes, or a cute tutu skirt. My friends and I like to mix Loli influences into our clothes; we don’t believe you have to look like an Angelic Pretty model in order to genuinely enjoy the fashion.

Example La Carmina Outfit (Photo Credit: La Carmina)

CL: What’s the best advice you’ve ever received?
LC: “Don’t be a tuna head!” From the Maniac Mansion computer game.

CL: Is there anything important that you’d like to share with CL that I haven’t asked?
LC:  It’s impossible to predict the path you’ll end up on, but a college education will always help you to get there. I’ve found that my writing and reporting has benefited from my studies, and that companies have been more keen to work with me because of my degrees. I didn’t end up in law, but found a path that I love, and that’s 100% me. And you can do the same! I hope you’ll stay tuned to my La Carmina blog, to see where my adventures take me next.

Want to know more about La Carmina? Check out her blog, find her on Facebook, or follow her on Twitter!

Sasha Graffagna is a New York University junior studying Journalism and Comparative Literature. She is currently on exchange at La Universidad del Sagrado Corazón in San Juan, Puerto Rico.


Looks for Less: Lourdes Leon

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Madonna may have been the style icon of the 80s, but her 15-year-old daughter, Lourdes Leon, is well on her way to being a style icon in her own right. Since we poor college students don’t have access to Madonna’s fortune, College Lifestyles helps you look just as fashionable as Lourdes for way, way less money.

Looks for Less: Lourdes Leon

To get this look, start with a cropped lace tank (1), $19.90, and pair with a high-waisted assymetrical black skirt (2), $45. This outfit has a lot of impact, so keep the accessories simple with a thick watch (3), $15.85, and a braided bracelet (4), $5.99. Complete the monochromatic palette with a gray satchel (5), $49.50, and a pair of sturdy, easy-to-walk-in combat boots (6), $42.

Looks for Less: Lourdes Leon

Ever the fashionable gal, Lourdes transforms a black strapless minidress (7), $22.38, with some well-chosen accessories. Steal a guy friend’s oversized plaid shirt (5), $19.95, and layer it under a faux leather jacket (1), $59.95. Ours doesn’t have studs, but we keep the rocker vibe with a chain (6), $22, and ripped stockings (3), $8. Buy a pair with a simple pattern and rip them with a key. A pair of ankle booties (4), $17.99, and leg warmers (8), $15,  keep you warm in case it gets chilly. Finish the outfit with a black wristlet (2), $22. Not on Lourdes’ list, but not all of us can have  an entourage to hold our stuff.

Looks for Less: Lourdes Leon
You may not be heading to any movie premieres, but you can always look like you are. Start with a simple mod light blue dress (1), $54.99. To stay warm in the theater, add a biker-chick jacket (2), $39.99, and a pair of black tights (3), $6.99. A thick black-and-gold chain (4), $7.80 and a pair of black pumps (5), $19.99, dress up the look and make it perfect for a movie date. The British-inspired clutch (6) might seem steep at $60, but there’s a $7 beaded version available on Etsy (not pictured). Finish off the look with a corded bracelet (7), $8.11, and a black-and-white scarf (8), $12, that sweetens this rocker-chick look.

Sasha Graffagna is a junior at New York University studying Journalism and Comparative Literature. She is currently on exchange at La Universidad del Sagrado Corazon in San Juan, Puerto Rico.


Style by the City: Valparaíso, Chile

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It’s officially spring, which means college women around the country are finally looking to put some fresh color back into their wardrobes. So this week’s Style by the City heads to Valparaíso, Chile. This city  may not be a bona fide Santiago. But, it’s unique landscape makes it the perfect place for outfit inspiration.

 

 

Evening Outfit: El Mercurio del Valparaiso

Style by the City: Valparaiso: Evening Outfit: El Mercurio del Valparaiso

El Mercurio del Valparaíso is the oldest Spanish-language newspaper in the world, so the evening outfit inspired by it is all about classic neutrals. A pair of graphic newsprint pants are bold and yet subdued in color, while a sleeveless white sweater is perfect for unpredictable spring weather. Black sequin pumps and a silver clutch keep the neutral theme, but add a pop of metallic trendiness. Complete the outfit with a pair of silver arrow earrings, in tribute to the statue on the newspaper building, pictured top left.

Casual Outfit: Piano Stairs

Style by the City: Valparaiso: Casual Outfit: Piano Stairs

Valparaiso has some of the most beautiful graffiti in the world, like the piano stairs pictured in this photo. Start your outfit with a piano bag and a pair of simple flats for all that walking. Since the entire site is bursting with color, use this season’s huge color blocking trend to your advantage. Here, we chose a red tank top and a yellow skirt. The skirt is tiered, which pays added homage to the stairs. Finally, add a trendy pastel jacket, like this sea green one inspired by the handrail.

Internship Outfit: Funicular

style by the city: valparaiso: evening out: funicular

Valparaiso’s funiculars, essentially cable cars, bring hundreds of tourists and residents around the city every day. Since the funiculars are so brightly colored, the star of the outfit is a bright but work-appropriate yellow dress. Since the dress commands attention, keep the accessories neutral with a simple blue bag and pumps. Make sure to check the dress code at your office before you try this outfit, though. If neutrals rule the day where you intern, you may want to add a simple blazer or steer clear of this altogether.

Sasha Graffagna is a junior at New York University studying Journalism and Comparative Literature. She is currently on exchange at La Universidad del Sagrado Corazón in San Juan, Puerto Rico. 


Spring Break Must-Haves: Sand, Staycation, Snow

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Everything about spring break is great – except the packing part. College Lifestyles help you out with these must-haves for any spring break, whether you’re headed to the beach, to the mountains, or just staying home. (Hey, planning a staycation is hard work!)

 

Beach Must-Haves:

College Lifestyles: Spring Break Must-Haves: Beach

Retro-inspired swimsuits are so in right now, so start your spring break right with this classy red-polka-dot bikini (1). A spray-on sunscreen (2)keeps your skin protected and is quick to put on, so you can make the most of your time at the beach. For those moments when the beach is just a bit too chilly, bring along a cute mesh cover-up (3). And if the sun’s too bright? This year’s subtle cat-eye sunglasses (4) flatter most face shapes. Don’t forget a pair of gladiator sandals (5)! Flip-flops are great, but gladiators will take you from the beach to lunch to a hot, tropical night on the town.

Staycation Must-Haves:

College Lifestyles: Spring Break-Must Haves: Staycation

Taking a staycation this spring break? Pull up Netflix Instant and stock up on some un-buttered microwave popcorn (1), and spice it up with a spoonful of Nutella, some paprika, or these other fun toppings. If you’d rather catch up on your reading, the much buzzed-about Hunger Games (2) opens on March 23rd, so now’s the perfect time to catch up. You’ve probably got a blanket and some pillows already to lounge in, but don’t neglect your feet! We like a pair of fuzzy slippers (4), which are the ultimate luxury even when it’s warm outside. Of course, spring break is also a great time to catch up on summer internship hunting, so get a head start by buying a set of stylish yet professional thank-you notes to send after all those interviews. But you’re on vacation, so you don’t have to start dressing professionally just yet. Take a beauty risk with some daring nail decals (5), and impress all your friends at school by telling them you did it yourself. Just kidding.

Snow Bunny Must-Haves:

College Lifestyles: Spring Break Must-Haves: Snow Bunny

Are you enjoying your last few weeks of winter this spring break? Your first must-have is a loop scarf (1), which keeps you hot on the runway and in real life. Since you are on vacation, add a little luxury to your life by splurging on some indulgent hot chocolate (2) – this one from Ghirardelli is flavored “Double Chocolate.” Make sure to keep your drink hot in this adorable eco-friendly penguin thermos (3). Since we know you’ll be a texting diva even on the slopes, invest in a pair of high-tech gloves (4), which let you play on your touchscreen phone without ever taking them off. Finally, all that cold winter air will dry out your skin, so help keep your face smooth with an intensely hydrating moisturizing cream (5).

Sasha Graffagna is a junior at New York University studying Journalism and Comparative Literature. She is currently on exchange at La Universidad del Sagrado Corazón in San Juan, Puerto Rico. 


Style by the City: Dublin

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We all know the only real holiday in March (besides Spring Break) is St. Patrick’s Day. Celebrate all month long with these looks inspired by Dublin, Ireland.

 

 

Evening Out: Guinness Brewery

College Lifestyles: Style by the City: Dublin: Evening Out: Guinness Brewery

What better way to celebrate a night out than in an outfit inspired by the beer you’re drinking? The Guinness Brewery is just one of many reasons to imbibe in Ireland, since they give you beer for free. Start with a subtle beer drinker tank top, and add a high-waisted golden skirt. The golden slingbacks match your skirt and are comfortable enough to stand in all night. A faux fur cropped jacket matches the walls of the factory and keeps you warm and stylish. Finish off the look with a black metallic clutch just big enough for your bare essentials, and some accessories: a beer charm (try putting it on a charm bracelet) and a piano necklace for the harp that is Guinness’ logo. Just make sure photos of your night don’t end up on the internet. So not classy.

Internship Outfit: Ha’Penny Bridge

College Lifestyles: Style by the City: Dublin: Internship Outfit: Ha'Penny Bridge

This week’s internship outfit is inspired by the Ha’Penny Bridge, known as such for the price of the toll it used to charge. The bridge is white, so start your outfit with a plain white  button-down, paired with a pencil skirt the cover of the river below. The pumps and the tote are work-appropriate and in tune with two major spring trends: pointy shoes and color-blocking. Don’t forget the accessories! We chose a striped scarf for the bridge’s pattern, sun earrings for its decorative lamps, and a coin necklace for the name.

Casual Outfit: Dublin Castle

College Lifestyles: Style by the City: Dublin: Casual Outfit: Dublin Castle

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Dublin Castle has seen its fair share of fires, so start your outfit with a pair of trendy crimson jeans. A grey tank top matches the castle’s outer facade and is tame enough to balance the metallic tweed blazer, which pays tribute to the castle’s gold interior. The library contains over 22,000 volumes, but the book-related item here is very American: earrings inspired by Dr. Seuss’ Cat In The Hat. This is the perfect outfit to study for midterms with, so slip on some easy-to-walk-in black Converse, and tuck your books into a bag that complements the bright jacket. Now, off to the library!

Sasha Graffagna is a junior at New York University studying Journalism and Comparative Literature. She is currently on exchange at La Universidad del Sagrado Corazón in San Juan, Puerto Rico. Check her out on Polyvore at sasha74.polyvore.com.


Top 11 Ways To Save Money On Study Abroad

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Studying abroad may be one of the best experiences of your college career, but it also can be one of the most expensive. Let College Lifestyles help you out with our top 11 ways to save money while studying abroad.

Before You Go:

1. Choose your place wisely. If you know in advance that money is going to be tight, choose a study abroad site you know you can afford. Studying Spanish? Skip Spain and head to South America instead.

2. Get a scholarship. There are several scholarships exclusively for study abroad. Make sure you look as far in advance as possible for these, since they can fill up quickly. These scholarships are especially common if you are studying in a less popular area, like China or the Middle East.

3. Get the International Student ID Card (ISIC). There’s a good chance a foreign country won’t recognize the ID card from your American university, especially if it’s not well-known. Having the ISIC ensures you always get the student prices you need. Best of all, the card comes with exclusive deals and works in 120 countries.

4. Enroll directly. The United States has one of the most expensive university systems in the world. If you speak the language (or are going somewhere they speak English), it can be several thousand dollars cheaper to enroll directly in a foreign university. Make sure you confirm this is possible with your university before trying this, as it can change how they accept your credits and your financial aid for that semester. And be prepared to deal with a lot of bureaucracy.

While You’re There:

5. Buy a sturdy coin purse. America’s most expensive coin is worth just $1, and those aren’t as common as the far less valuable quarter. But in other countries, coins can be more valuable – take the euro coin, which at today’s exchange rate is worth $1.30 on the dollar. That doesn’t sound like a lot more, but it adds up. Also, many public transport systems will also only accept coins. The lesson here? Skip the flimsy pocket in your wallet and buy a sturdy coin purse. They’re so cheap, they can double as a souvenir.

6. Cooking your own food, if it’s an option, is generally far cheaper (and healthier!) than buying it everyday. This is great for practicing the language, since it forces you to learn the names of new foods and talk with the shopkeepers. Who knows? Maybe you’ll even learn a new recipe.

7. Try Couchsurfing. Don’t have money to spend on hostels? Couchsurfing is absolutely free. This company pairs up travelers with regular people who are willing to open up their home for a few days. This is much safer than it sounds since Couchsurfing allows people to write reviews of both hosts and guests. You might even love it so much that you’ll host travelers once you return to the States.

8. Keeping an expense journal is a great budget skill wherever you are. But it’s especially important when you’re studying abroad, i.e. spending way more money than normal and dealing with a foreign currency. Buy a tiny notebook you can tuck into any purse and write each purchase in as you go. At the end of the week, add the money up and convert it into US dollars.

9. Make local (and foreign) friends. One of the many benefits of having local friends is that they can save you money, showing you all the cool, cheap hangouts that you would never discover on your own. But foreign friends, specifically ones from nearby countries are great too. Studying in France and make friends with someone who lives in Dublin? Now you have a place to stay for the weekend and your own personal tour guide.

10. Read a weekly publication. Most major cities have a weekly publication that has an event listing in the back, most of which are cheap or free. If you’re lucky, they’ll even have one in English. Use Google, a local friend, or a guidebook to find one. If you’re really stuck, Time Out is also a good place to start.

11. Travel domestically. One of the advantages of studying abroad is that you get to stay in the same country for several months. Get to know the whole place, not just the city you’re in, by traveling domestically – which is generally cheaper than traveling internationally. Don’t feel like you’re missing out: When I was studying in Buenos Aires, I never left Argentina once. I did, however, go to Bariloche, Mendoza, Salta, Jujuy, and Iguazú Falls – and I had an amazing time.

Want more study abroad articles? Check out Top 10 Ways to Stay Fit While Studying Abroad, or CL Top 10: What and What Not to Pack for Study Abroad.

Sasha Graffagna is a current junior studying Journalism and Comparative Literature at NYU. She studied abroad in Buenos Aires last semester, and is currently on exchange at La Universidad de Sagrado Corazón in San Juan, Puerto Rico.


Vagina, Vagina: The Other Side of V-Day

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February 14th.

Today is Valentine’s Day, a day about love between families, between friends, and between lovers. But in 1994, Eve Ensler also made it about love between women.

The Tony Award-winning playwright is the author of The Vagina Monologues, a play based on hundreds of interviews conducted with women from different walks of life. Meant to bring attention to the violence and abuse faced by women and girls worldwide, the show’s profits are all donated to charities devoted to this cause. 18 years after its premiere, The Vagina Monologues is now performed in 140 countries during V-Season, which is between February 1st and April 30th each year.

“I know too many women who have experienced rape and sexual violence and I truly believe in the mission of V-Day – drawing attention to violence against women and girls with the goal of ending the war on women,” says Ali Puente-Douglass, co-producer and co-director of the New York University graduate students’ production.

Every production must donate 10% of its profits to the Spotlight Campaign, which for the past two years has been the Women and Girls of Haiti. New York University students have donated to several other organizations that help women, including Sanctuary for Families and Partners for Women and Justice. At Washington State University-Pullman, the production has raised over $70,000 for various causes in the 10 years since it began the show, said Joan Oviawe, the production’s graduate coordinator.

Those who work with the show face several challenges, explained Gabrielle Wiker. Wiker is a member of the University of Cincinnati’s V-Team, an activism team that works in conjunction with the show to raise awareness about violence against women.

“For me, the major challenge of V-Day was getting people interested in the cause,” said Wiker. “I encountered so many students who were passionate about the cause, but I also encountered so many who did not take any interest at all. It was disheartening to see students, especially women, who did not see this as a serious issue that needs our attention.”

For Nataraj Jonnalagadda, another member of the UC V-Team, the challenge was more personal. Only people who identify as women may be in the cast, and Jonnalagadda was one of the only males involved with the production. This fact, coupled with his conservative Indian upbringing, made the show hard to relate to at first.

“But,” Jonnalagadda said, “if you open your mind and watch it, it’s brilliant….The show made me a humanist, because it’s not just about women’s rights. It’s about human rights, how there’s so many human rights violations going on across the world. It helped me to think in a way that I should do something, to change things, to make things better.”

Despite his support of the show, Jonnalagadda explained that he’d never heard of the show before arriving in the United States. “Women and men are still not equal even in the US, so in a way these shows are needed here. But…it’s not in India, not in China, not in Pakistan – those are the places where these kinds of shows are needed.”

While Jonnalagadda is correct in saying there are no 2012 V-Day events in India nor Pakistan, there will be a production of The Vagina Monologues in Shenzhen, China, on April 28 of this year.

Although the show grapples with several serious issues, the behind-the-scenes work also involves a good deal of fun. Jennifer Cardoza, a Northern Arizona University sophomore, rehearsed with the show’s cast in 2011, but was ultimately unable to perform.

Still, she says, “I got to bond with the girls in a very significant way.. I think that embodies the whole movement of The Vagina Monologues, it brings together the women who are participating in it, and we take that energy and unite the audience – we make the audience more aware, and make the world aware.”

For the university educators involved with the show, their favorite part is the students themselves.

Brandy Turnbow, the Program Coordinator for Marketing and Communication at the UC Women’s Center, says, “My favorite part would have to be seeing people who want to be activists, want to be on stage but don’t know quite how to get there, seeing them come to the production and realize they can do it – they can get on stage, they can be activists – watching students being able to figure that out and figuring that out. Each year the show changes, but there’s parts where you scream ‘cunt,’ and being able to see that and appreciate the vagina. There’s students who say, I can’t talk in front of people! They get out there, they read it, they love, and they’re back the next year.”

Kimberly Fulbright, Turnbow’s colleague as the UC Women’s Center’s Program Coordinator for Activism and Education, agrees. She adds, “It is also a great effort because after working with sexual assault survivors and issues for the last 7 years, it can definitely be depressing and take a toll on your motivation level at times. But this is one of those events that helps keep inspiration and hope in all of us.”

Ultimately, the show is about women taking back their own voices. Danielle Rains, a UC student, a survivor of childhood sexual abuse, and a woman who directed The Vagina Monologues in 2011 and stage managed and performed in it in 2012, puts it best.

“It’s important to give women a voice, a creative outlet to release all this bottled up Vagina Rage and Vagina Love. It’s also important because violence against women and girls is a global crisis, not a special interest like some make it out to be. That’s why the show is for everyone. Everyone has a woman that they love, no matter who you are.”

The 2012 University of Cincinnati and Washington State University-Pullman productions have already been performed. The New York University production will be performed on February 15/16 at Tischman Auditorium in Vanderbilt Hall. Tickets are $10 and you can find more information here.

Sasha Graffagna is a junior at NYU majoring in Journalism and Comparative Literature. She is currently studying away at La Universidad del Sagrado Corazón in San Juan, Puerto Rico.


Style by the City: Buenos Aires, Valentine’s Edition

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Valentine’s Day is almost here! Still have no idea what to wear? Look to one of the most romantic cities on earth for inspiration. No, not Paris. Buenos Aires, Argentina.

 

Date Outfit: El Rosedal

College Lifestyles: Style by the City: Buenos Aires: Date Outfit: El Rosedal

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What could be more romantic than a rose garden in the middle of a city? Bring that romantic spirit with you on your date this February 14th. Start with a flower-print dress, and an oversized black cardigan to keep warm. The Rosedal showcases many different types of roses, and you can mix things up a bit too with a lavender rose cocktail ring. Heeled Mary Janes keep the look classy and sexy, and a white beanie keeps you cozy outside. Of course, in addition to snuggling up to your significant other.

Evening Out: Puente de La Mujer

College Lifestyles: Style by the City: Buenos Aires: Evening Outfit: Puente de La Mujer

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No hot date this Valentine’s Day? You can still look hot out on the town with your girls. Buenos Aires has the perfect landmark for you to base this weekend’s outfit on – Puente de La Mujer, or the Woman’s Bridge. The bridge is said to depict a couple doing the tango, perhaps the world’s sexiest dance, so slip into your LRD: Little Red Dress. A silver blazer keeps you warm and adds the metallic feel of the Puente. The white mast of the bridge is said to be the man, so try a pair of white heels with a masculine touch; we chose spikes. Now get ready to dance the night away, Buenos Aires-style.

Internship Outfit: El Ateneo

College Lifestyles: Style by the City: Buenos Aires: Internship Outfit: El Ateneo

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El Ateneo used to be a theater, but was then converted into a bookstore. The style lesson you should take from this? Don’t be afraid to do the unexpected, like wearing festive clothes to the office on Valentine’s Day. We gave a romantic white blouse a work-appropriate silhouette with a structured red blazer and a skinny belt cinched around the west. Black pants and black flats provide a neutral base, while the satchel is muted yet in tune with the Ateneo’s color scheme. And don’t forget the books! We love the adorable earrings of a classy lady reading.

What are you wearing for Valentine’s Day? Let us know in the comments!

Sasha Graffagna is a NYU junior studying Journalism and Comparative Literature. She is currently on exchange at La Universidad del Sagrado Corazón in San Juan, Puerto Rico. Follow her on Polyvore at sasha74.